i pulled up my big-girl panties and as FrayedLaces hoped for, found my balls (even though Jay said last night that I've had his for the last 6 years). Like the feeling of ripping off a band-aid, it hurt like hell; the hardest part is done, but it's far from over. The situation hasn't involved a boyfriend/husband... but rather my dad. I hope that doesn't change anyone's opinion after all the kind words on my last post... thank you all so much. The support out there from perfect strangers is so amazing.
Family or not, I still need to live my life and be happy. My dad has had more close calls with his life than anyone i know... yet I'm surprised he makes the choices he does, concerns himself with such insignificant things and takes things for granted the way he does; but I've learned long ago that you can't change other people. After my surgery, I made a conscious decision to live life to it's fullest, and that's what I've done and intend to continue doing. I'm sure I never would have started running if it wasn't for what I've gone through... and that's just the beginning.
Yesterday, my day was brightened a little with a surprise lunch time delivery from a florist. Tuesday night, as I sat in my home office finishing up work reading blogs, I heard a screech, then a thud. I've been waiting for it to happen. I live at a fairly busy corner of 2 side streets, many times cars fail to stop. Anyway, mother and 2 girls came out of the car, everyone ok. Saw the youngest girl outside crying her little eyes out, so I went outside to see if they were ok, and asked the girls wanted to come inside while the mother was on the phone dealing with insurance, etc. The youngest said "YES, I'M GOING TO PEE MY PANTS VERY SOON!" Alrighty then.
Well, food was already in the oven for my two kids by the time they came in... so I just split up the food 4 ways instead of two. The mom came in a few minutes later to see all 4 kids eating... and couldn't thank me enough. All 4 kids went to play the game of Life afterwards, too cute. It was very sweet of them to send us the flowers yesterday.
Looking out the window, it's a beautiful sun shining day... so I'm heading out for a run. Hope you all have a great weekend.
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21 comments:
Sometimes even family needs to be set straight. Glad you are getting through it.
Very nice of you to help out the mom. I'm sure she really appreciated it!
Have a great weekend.
What a nice surprise - the flowers from the family.
But you deserve it of course, that was very nice of you to help them out. :-)
Family can be so difficult at time.
The flowers are beautiful and you deserve them.
That was a nice thing that you did! I'm sure it helped the mom.
As for your dad, nope, doesn't change my opinion. But, I am sorry that you are going through a tough time filled with hurt. As long as you know you are doing the right thing, I imagine it will get better in time.
Good for you for having enough strength to stop a toxic relationship. Hang in there. I think you are doing the right thing.
That is so kind of you to help out that woman and her girls.
Canadians are too nice.
ohh that is so sweet :) what a great story.
Yay! Glad you found your cohones. Now, don't you feel better?
First of Mel - how nice of you to help that family! I'm sure they appreciated it so much.
Second of all, so sorry to hear about the situation with your dad. You are right though, you need to live your life to the fullest and do what is right for you. To have to make that call with such a close family member can't be easy, but do what is right for you, not what other people think may be right for you.
Hugs your way Mel. You are such a strong woman.
You did a good deed girlie!!!
Those type of things don't go unnoticed by people and stuff!!!
Hope you enjoyed your run!!
You did the right thing!!!
you are so kind to invite them in and feed them, you amazing woman you!! How wonderful they thought to send you flowers.
Good on you for being strong and doing what you needed to do. Relationships - especially with parents - can be tricky.
I'm glad the woman and her kids were ok. It was wonderful of you to help them out. I'm sure the flowers were sent with heartfelt thanks. Have a great weekend!
That was so sweet of you to take the kids in.
I've had a very distant relationship with my dad, but since he lives in the Philippines anyway, it hasn't mattered.
You need surround yourself with people in your life that are supportive, so if you need to distance yourself from your dad, then it is the right thing to do. Hopefully in time, he can make amends.
You are so sweet taking in those kids Mel, I'm so glad they appreciated it and sent you flowers. Hope you have a great weekend!
That this person is your dad doesn't change anything... even family can't be allowed to take advantage of you.
That was so nice of you to take in the mom and her girls after their accident. Not many people reach out to strangers with such hospitality. I'm glad they expressed their appreciation. :)
I'm jealous of your bright sunny day! I'm expecting an 8-mile run in the rain tomorrow. :/
i still agree... just because someone is family does not mean they can 'use' you and never give anything back. i'm glad you are doing what is best for you!
soo nice what you did for the mom and the girls! and how cool of them to send you flowers! really a great story. always nice to hear that there are nice, kind, honest, trustworthy people still in this world! not that i thought you weren't of course :)
happy v-day and have a great weekend!
You are an allstar! I cant get over how nice that is. Not many people would do so much as ask if they are ok , let a lone bring them in and give em food :)
You really do have such a giant heart. :o)
Very nice deed. Happy Valentine's day!
Sounds like you had a nice Valentine's Day! :>) Decisions like those can be very tough!
This is such a "Mel" thing to do. They definitely got in a car accident in the right spot.
Gorgeous flowers, btw!
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