Tuesday, February 24, 2009

he really said that? really??!

ever get an unsolicited compliment from someone, and it sort of shocks you?  By shocking, I mean that it's unexpected, yet pleasant?

Gawd, I hope that this person doesn't read running blogs and happen to stumble across this post; I will feel like such a dork, but here goes.

I mentioned a few months ago that I joined a different gym. (I'm not going to mention the name of the gym, which would further assist this person to find my blog and read my dorky post through the 'powers' of Google).

I quickly learned that the owner of the gym was a runner -- a stellar-one at that.  We had a brief conversation about running when I wore one of my race shirts from last summer, where he was a pace bunny.  

He proudly displays an age-group medal for a race that I hope to run next month, and his framed Boston medal and certificate! I make a point of looking at this display each time I walk into the gym, especially if I'm there for a treadmill run if the weather is less than ideal.  It serves as a nice little motivator and reminder of the training and effort we all make in ourselves.

Anyway.  Jay came home from the gym a few days ago, and retold a conversation that he had with the owner, which started by him ask if I was still running and training for anything.  Jay mentioned that I was training for Around the Bay, the 30k race on March 29th.  He explained that this was his comeback race (not sure which year) after having blown out his knee.  He was overcome with emotion when crossing the line, and placed (maybe 3rd? I can't quite remember) in his age-group!  He then said that he's seen me running on the treadmill, and I'm a good runner, and said I should definitely run the race.

When Jay told me this story, I got a warm-fuzzy feeling, but kept asking him if he really said that to see if he was bullsh*tting me. Are you sure he was talking about me?? Here's someone who has been a runner longer than I, much faster runner, and accomplished in the running community as a Boston Qualifier and finisher; paying moi a compliment!  Since joining the gym, I've been focusing on my heart rate training which has slowed my already slow pace, so the compliment certainly wasn't speed related; it's nice that "fast" doesn't always mean "good" which is great news for me!

On the topic of heart rate training... 2 weekends ago I rejoined the running group, and ran with a different bunch given the pace I needed to keep my heart rate down.  We discussed the ideas and principles behind this type of training, the lactate threshold test that I had done to determine my zones, and what I was hoping to accomplish. She was intrigued, and asked me to forward the information I had from my research. I did.  She then discussed it with a few other group members during another group run last week, and now everyone is interested!  Once the 30k race is out of the way, there's a few that are really keen on trying this out! I expected to be alone on this, so I'm kinda proud to be trying something that others are getting excited about.

That's it for now, I'm gonna head out for a short lunch time run. Enjoy the day!

34 comments:

BeachRunner said...

That is awesome. Way to go!!!

But face it - You ARE a runner, Melly Melz. And getting better every day. You have earned those nice comments and certainly deserve them.

Irene said...

I'd take it as a compliment! When a person frequents the gym on a daily basis (such as the owner...) you get an idea of who is really working out or who is there for social hour. He noticed your running!

Have a wonderful day!

Kristen said...

Hey you ARE a runner and from the looks of your blog a DARN good one too!
I haven't tried the heart rate thing. Right now I'm just trying to keep my good pace so I can run the half without stopping or passing out :-)
I just hope to beat my first half pace time.

Carlee said...

Yay! That definitely is a great feeling. Definitely great motivation.

Brian said...

That must be a big motivator, getting a great comment like that. Take it and run with it! ;-)

X-Country2 said...

What a great compliment! Your hard work is paying off.

Runner Leana said...

Wow, that is a fantastic compliment! Awesome Mel!

I think you are on to something with the heart rate training. I've been spending time with someone who is...shall we say...a little more hard core in the world of triathlon than I am. :) We were talking about heart rate during training the other day and he always gets new athletes to stay in zone 2 for their runs, and learn to build pace over time without building heart rate sky high. I guess this is pretty critical as you start moving into the world of Ironman since you don't want to hop off the bike and be running in zone 4 already or else you won't make it through the marathon too successfully.

lindsay said...

you are totally a runner girl! he has obviously noticed your dedication and hard work, and runner-to-runner we all know what it takes to get ourselves up and out the door day after day. an awesome compliment for sure :) way to inspire your group too!! your drive is definitely showing to everyone around you.

Glaven Q. Heisenberg said...

Nicest compliment I ever got at a gym:

"You sweat too much and you stink. I'm not telling you to get out but ... GET OUT!!11!"

Yeah, I still got THAT warm-fuzzy, too, over a year later.

I still don't belong to a gym.

But ... congrats to you, non-stinky Canadian. Must be nice.

Tammy said...

Great compliment!

In some ways, it's better to be consistent than to be fast.
(That's what I keep telling myself anyway)

tfh said...

That is SO cool! I know I tend to consider people "real runners" when they have awards and BQs to show off, but the truth is, we are ALL real runners, most of all you w/ your determination and commitment to experimenting w/ ways to be the best runner possible. Now you better feel SUPER cool every time you stride into the gym!

Marlene said...

What a nice compliment! Now you just have to try not to blush next time you see him. ;)

Have a great run!

I Run for Fun said...

You should totally take that as a compliment. You are a dedicated runner...and getting better by the day. Great going!

aron said...

YAY that is totally awesome!!! what a great compliment - and definitely deserved too :)

RunToFinish said...

great compliment! seriously why don't we all get more of those, they are hard earned and well deserved.

Missy said...

It's always better when the compliment comes from an unexpected source, I swear. Train low to go fast! Gotta do it. I know so many people that crash in their events b/c they can't keep up the pace ... they never built their 'base' in the first place;) Way to go.

Missy said...

It's always better when the compliment comes from an unexpected source, I swear. Train low to go fast! Gotta do it. I know so many people that crash in their events b/c they can't keep up the pace ... they never built their 'base' in the first place;) Way to go.

Missy said...

Damn it all...sorry bout that...

Kita said...

YA!!! That is awesome, and you deserve it.

Run Mommy said...

Definitely a runner! BTW, thanks for the tip on the shoes. The good news is that The Runners Lounge will receive shipment and then ship them to me. I am so excited!

Road Warrior said...

Sounds like there's something to slowing down and working on your technique. How flattering!

Marci said...

You are definately a runner. I don't think being fast(er) makes anyone more of a runner, its all about heart and passion, IMO!!
I think the comment was most definately well deserved. Yeah for ATB!!

Heather said...

That's a nice compliment, and agree with Marci - what defines a runner is heart and passion, not speed!

TNTcoach Ken said...

Now don't go and get the Big Head, since you're a good runner. Speed isn't the only aspect of running.

KimsRunning said...

Yeah baby!!! He musta been checking out your "form"...LOL

That is so sweet of him to say that. Kinda gives you a nice little boost!!

Go girl!!!

joyRuN said...

Sweet propz! That's truly a great compliment :)

Denise said...

Nice!! Very flattering. It's so nice when someone notices how hard we work and actually comment on it.

Calyx Meredith said...

How much fun to get a compliment like that! Hope you had a great lunch time run.

MCM Mama said...

Awesome compliment! Cool that you've got a group that wants to do the heart rate training with you. Next thing you know, you'll be the HR training Guru for Canada!

SuperDave said...

Andrew just finished a half marathon race the other day and has been training with the slower runs/ low HR. He knocked off > 6 minutes on his PR. Check it out.

Mica said...

Yay, what a compliment! I bet that made your day!

Stuart said...

Nice and well deserved too!

Marcy said...

LMAO at G!! That is such a nice compliment! And you TOTALLY deserve it because you ARE a great runner ;D

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