Friday, September 25, 2009

11 years in the making

I want to be sad because the years have gone by far too fast, but I'm extremely proud of the young man he's becoming. Having had the seizures while he was very young (from 1-3 years old) I now have rely on pictures to try to jog memories of his early years, especially his 'firsts'. I cannot remember his first words, his first steps, or even the terrible two's! But it's a small price to pay for the quality of life I now have, and the memories we're rebuilding together. Terron is turning 11 years old today... wow. Still having a hard time believing he's in grade 6!

Yes, I might be biased, but this kid is something special. He is funny, he's smart, he loves sports, and has a great memory for player statistics (yet, still manages to forget thing I told him less than 5 minutes before...). He's caring, polite and empathetic.




If you don't believe me, here he is giving me my pills the day after I came home from brain surgery.




I know it might be a tough day for him having recently lost his dad, but I will always try to make his days special. It's him and I now.

Terron, I love you more than I will ever be able to express in words. Even with all the hugs and kisses, it could never tell the whole story.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
TERRON!!

Next up, this kid of mine will become a triathlete on Saturday with race kit pick up and body marking being done friday night before ice cream birthday cake! Be prepared to see a lot of tri pics in the upcoming posts! :)

We were out practicing transitions on Tuesday night -- I cannot begin to tell you guys how awesome it is to have something else to talk to my kid about... another way to relate to each other. Something that he asks me questions about, something to keep communication open! I'm cherishing this moment...

37 comments:

Runner Leana said...

Happy birthday Terron and best of luck at your triathlon this weekend!!

Jo Lynn said...

He does soundn like a sweet boy. You are very lucky to have him and he's very lucky to have you. It fills my heart to read those things you say about him. I hope you two always have this beautiful relationship you have now. (My daughter and I do and it's incredible.) ;)

Carlee said...

aww Happy bday and I can't wait for the pics!

TRI-james said...

Great job – Having those common interests will build a lifelong friendship! It will make the tough times easier I’m sure. Hold him tight!

Amanda said...

Happy Birthday Terron and can't wait to hear how great you'll do on Saturday!!!

Diana said...

Happy Birthday Terron!!! Isn't being "Mom" the greatest job ever???!!!!
I will be thinking of you guys tomorrow (in between "hangs" of course)while doing his first of I'm sure many triathlons!
Best of luck and have a great weekend!!!

Damo (Aus) said...

Hey Terron.

Happy Birthday! You'll have a ball at the Tri too.

Now ... it just has to be said, but Mel what were you were thinking when you bought that denim shirt ;) (btw, I had one myself)

Mel-2nd Chances said...

@Damo LOL -- i did just have brain surgery and still had the staples in my head... can't we just blame it on that?! :P

Mistyfied said...

Happy Birthday Terron and good luck tomorrow.

Marlene said...

Happy Birthday to Terron! Wish him some good luck for me tomorrow. Most of all, I hope he has a blast.

Marci said...

What a touching post, happy birthday Terron! You will rock your tri tomorrow!!

Carolina John said...

happy birthday Terron! and good luck on the tri tomorrow. I know he will rock it, and come out addicted just like mommy.

Velma said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Lisa Slow-n-Steady said...

Happy Birthday, T!

Glaven Q. Heisenberg said...

You got me a bit chokes up over here, sistre, because Ian turns TEN in less than two months!

Man, they are SOOO worth it, aren't they? They make US better people.

Happy birthday to Terron!

RunToTheFinish said...

woot woot let's hear it for the boy...oh yeah I'm singing over here a little 80's.

happy birthday

Calyx Meredith said...

Happy Birthday Big T - and can't wait to hear about the tri! Good luck and have FUN!!

RunningLaur said...

Happy Birthday, Terron!

Your connection that you can share with tri's (both in a mentor and co-athlete capacities) will give you such a fantastic connection to your son. I bet that he'll be so much more comfortable spending time and sharing the important things of life with you because you have this one great thing to share!

B.o.B. said...

This post brought tears to my eyes. You are a wondeful mother. I am sure Terron knows that. Happy birthday to him and best of luck with the tri!

HeidiTri's said...

Happy Birthday to Terron.
And good luck to him on his first Tri!
He is so fortunate to have this relationship with you.

Mel -Tall Mom on the Run said...

Happy Birthday and GOOD LUCK Terron. He is linked on High Five Friday..

Hugs to you both!

X-Country2 said...

Wow, what a great kid. (and a great mom!) Happy birthday!

Rick said...

Thanks for sharing this with us. There's nothing like reading about the pride of a mom for her son or daughter.

The fact that he's doing a triathlon is awesome in itself, but doing it in the memory of his late dad...wow...that blows me away.

You'll have to provide updates over the course of the triathlon. :)

aron said...

happy birthday terron and happy 11 years of being an amazing mom :)

Beth said...

Happy Birthday to Terron and good luck at the tri! I love the picture of you two together. Can't wait for the race report!

Fair Weather Runner said...

you two are precious! happy birthday terron, i hope it's wonderful. and good luck on that tri!

The Happy Runner said...

Happy birthday to Terron!!! I hope he (and you!) had a great day. And, I hope he has lots of fun on Sat!!!

Groover said...

I reckon Terron will need a blog of his own soon. :-) Happy birthday, young man!

joyRuN said...

Happy birthday to your budding triathlete, & good luck on Saturday!!

Jes said...

Happy Birthday Terron!! A new year and new adventures! How exciting!

Marathonman101108 said...

Beautiful post...my eyes have tears. Happy belated birthday Terron. Can't wait for the triathalon report and pics.

Denise said...

He's so lucky to have you!! Hope he kicks butt this weekend...if he's anything like his Mom he will kill it!

Irene said...

Happy 11th Birthday Terron! The world awaits you!

lindsay said...

happy belated birthday terron!!! hope you had a wonderful b-day weekend and i'm sure the tri was awesome :)

love that you guys also have tri's/exercise to talk about. it just helps to have more and more in common!

Ted said...

Hope Terron had a TERRIFIC birthday !!! It was awesome to see the pictures via Facebook. Believe it or not, I was teary eyed!

MCM Mama said...

Happy Belated Birthday, Terron! Hope it was awesome!

ShirleyPerly said...

Happy Belated Birthday, Terron! LOVE that photo of you two together.

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